The Vertical Relationship Show: Relationship Goals, Healing Trauma, Biblical Counseling, Dating Advice & Christian Marriage

Shame, fear, or poverty mindsets will NOT help you heal old trauma. Did you know: Studies have shown that Christian Counselors help 92% of the people they counsel? WOW! Leaning on the power of the Holy Spirit as opposed to man's way is the best route to victory over your life. Christian Counseling allows people to get to the "ROOT" of bondage and avoid temporary Band-aids of secular ways. Find out over 15 reasons why people reject Christian Counseling and don't abide in my ARC Method!
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The enemy can make anything demonic look divine! Aligning yourself with unfruitful relationships will cause strongholds in your life. Ungodly connections cause delay and can taint your anointing, ministry, and business. EKKK! During this time of testing... God clearly spoke to me for direction, as a huge mac truck pulled out slowly in front of me. You won't believe what it said! Our alignment with Him is utterly important, not only for you, but the direction of your life. Will you listen?
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Do you tend to point your finger at others? Play the blame game? Truth... we must take responsibility for our own happiness. Yikes! The choices we make have consequences, good or bad, but they are indeed our own. Many times, we need to embrace the harsh reality that we may have wounds (trauma) buried deep in our soul. If you're not willing to look "inwardly" this can hinder your healing with Jesus. Jesus wants to restore you. Will you let Him?
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Are you putting up healthy boundaries in your relationships? Avoiding worldly distractions takes effort on your part to become whole and set free. Many times, it’s necessary to step back from the chaos of the world and spend time with Jesus. Without it, you inhibit healing with Jesus. Today more than ever, we have got to get our priorities in order. Can you step away from the clamor of the world and allow Jesus a quiet space in your heart?
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Why should you “forgive” when someone double-crossed you, cheated on you, left you, abused you, or turned their back on you? When we grieve a spirit of unforgiveness, we lose the ability to hear God’s voice, think clearly, and hold onto feelings that don't serve us. Worst off, unresolved emotions turn into ugly strongholds when not healed appropriately. Fact is, it keeps us in bondage of the devil.
Unforgiveness is a stronghold, not a feeling or emotion! A decision to "let go" and release feelings of resentment or vengeance toward a person who has harmed you is a conscious choice.
Remember: It's a Commandment from God. If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins" (Matthew 6:14-15).
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Chosen ones, you must be ready to go head-to-head against the enemy's hierarchy attacks. Fight for cursed nations and learn how to equip the saints with proper alignment. Why, you ask? Water and territorial spirits are after God's chosen ones! Evil is affecting our land, society, children, and families. 
Blind eyes and deaf ears must be open to receive prophetic words from the Lord. The enemy is on a mission to destroy God's anointed vessels, especially with those on fire for the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords. Will you allow these evil spirits to stunt your progress for God's Kingdom? Be on guard for territorial and water spirits affecting your state, city, region, country, and nation!
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Did you know that Florida has the highest drowning rate in our nation for children under four? It doesn’t surprise me that "The Sunshine State" attracts young spring breakers to beautiful beaches and families to refreshing pools... BUT the enemy has a sneaky agenda! 
Many talk about evil spirits affecting our land, but not water... Well, God revealed a strategic water spirit to me that is affecting our innocent children. "Therefore, rejoice, O heavens! And you who live in the heavens, rejoice! But terror will come on the earth and the sea, for the devil has come down to you in great anger, knowing that he has little time” (Revelation 12:12). The enemy is after our children! Will you take heed of the spiritual dimension ignored and bypassed to help God's children? 
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Have you been affecting by a territorial spirit? The Lord revealed three states in my dreams that carry a specific hierarchy of sexual immorality, lust, prevention, greed, pride, and witchcraft. These evil agents attempt to hinder God’s Word, bring a veil over your eyes, and block your ears from hearing God's truth. 
Why? So, you stay stuck in bondage, live in oppression, and continue being influenced by people living in geographical areas. Remember: We life in spiritual realm, not just a physical realm! “For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places" (Ephesians 6:12).
 
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Our identity does not lie upon people, circumstances, money, or a job status. If this defines who you are… you will continue to feel lost, unworthy, undervalued, and unloved. Many have a natural tendency to search for their value in the unfulfilling, external things. To be able to understand your identity as a follower of Christ, you need to understand how God sees you. Stay closely knitted with our Creator. Let Him build you up, not the other way around. Your identity in Christ “means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun” (2 Corinthians 5:17)!
Note: The LORD told me to take my Facebook group down. But, you can still follow me on YouTube, Ministry Page,
Blessings xo-
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Christianity + New Age is an oxymoron, my friends. The devil has made its way into the medical, fitness, and health fields! Did you know holistic, natural, and alternative approaches are expressed from God, but not from our Creator? Society makes these industries appear godly, but it’s demonic at its root! Taking a false healing service and throwing the word Christian in front of it... does you no justice. It creates more harm and opens doors for the enemy. We cannot “Christian-ese” and think it’s safe. Eliminate everything that can be a hindrance to your freedom! God wants more for you.
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True prophets will give it to you real! So, why are false prophets on the rise? Truth, many people only want to listen to what their "itching ears" want to hear rather than need to hear. This is exactly what false prophets are doing to you! Many insist on hearing positive words that bend down to the devil, taking innocent souls away from the Lord. You cannot walk with God and run with devil! It's an oxymoron. Your loyalty must not be divided “Their loyalty is divided between God and the world, and they are unstable in everything they do” (James 1:8). 
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Empty-Nest Syndrome is a bittersweet season! Big changes are on the horizon. Your kiddo are flying the coop. Your erratic emotions are all over the place. Emotional distress can affect both parents who experience feelings of grief, loss, and fear when our children leave home. This can feel like a slow death and quite devastating to a grieving parent. You're not alone, my friends. Find some positive encouragement and tips how to cope with these mixed-up feelings and emotions! 
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Are you giving evil tormenters (demons) open doorways for harassment? What happens when we come into agreement with the evil one? Without realizing it... You may be given access through open doors such as: watching porn, adultery, partaking in the occult, holding onto unforgiveness, and many other ungodly acts. It’s up to you to slam that doorway closed! Don’t be scared, my friends. It’s your responsibility as a Christ follower to understand the deeper and profound meaning of spiritual warfare.
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Men and women are a tri part being; body, soul, and spirit. When we receive Christ, we get a new spirit, but not a new body or soul. Unfortunately, our wounded soul still needs work! God does not just drop a new mindset on our lap. He does not snap His fingers and WALA… you naturally inherit a toned or chiseled physique. Although, we do need to take care of our temple, God is not our personal genie. All your problems and behavior patterns don’t disappear into thin air. Your relationships aren't magically better. So, what happens?
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WARNING! There are pseudo leaders and false prophets among us and on the rise... Crawling around in our churches, online and offline, and social media outlets only for your money and their precious idols. You think you’re safe but in reality, are you? These are strong prophetic words from the mouth of God, not on my own accord. "You rulers make decisions based on bribes; you priests teach God’s laws only for a price; you prophets won’t prophesy unless you are paid. Yet all of you claim to depend on the Lord" (Micah 3:11). EEKK! True ambassadors won't care ONLY about the money, but about truly helping the lost and brokenhearted. 
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ChatGPT has taken over the world! In essence, the devil is slipping into our devices which blocks people from relying on the Holy Spirt for direction and guidance. Yet, still others don’t care, trying to find a quick fix, or don't seem to notice. This processing tool is using artificial intelligence (AI) as a chatbot to generate quick code, craft stories, write essays, produce captivating poems, songs, articles, sermons... and so much more! Divination tools should be avoided, my friends. Keep yourself pure brothers and sisters in Christ. "For God is Spirit, so those who worship Him must worship in spirit and in truth" (John 4:24). Find out 5 ways demons are creating bondage and blocks the Holy Spirt from your life! 
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Desire the outcome rather than the pain! At some point, you will have to say "enough" and want to do something different in your life. Spinning the infamous hamster wheel is called insanity and does nothing for your healing progression. Find out: 7 Reasons Christians give excuses for “NOT HEALING” with God. God wants more for you, your health, and your relationships. Do you? “He heals the brokenhearted and bandages their wounds” (Psalm 147:3 NLT).
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Our society is obsessed with labels! Don’t allow anyone, including doctors, to put you into any worldly category. You may have heard, I have ADHD, anxiety, or PTSD. I’m an introvert. I’m fat...These are actually word curses over your life! Words are powerful. Our tongue can be a might weapon to harm and destroy or build and heal. "Death and life are in the power of the tongue” (Proverbs 18:21). The tongue is a flame of fire that can corrupt your entire body. Don't allow anyone that much control over your life. Who does God say you are? 
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I see relationships falling apart from too many distractions. No boundaries set in place. Many times, it’s necessary to step back from all the chaos and jibber-jabber... and be still with the Lord. Distractions happens from a quick glimpse. All it takes is two seconds to separate us from God. I want to share a story with you… God told me to take a break and spoke to me through a wounded bird! God can speak to you, too. Will you lay down the distractions that block your ability to hear God's voice?
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God is looking for those who are going to rebuild the walls, not tear it down! The Lord griefs false prophets and lying leaders in this dark world. Yes, even at church, media, news, Hollywood, government, and social media… everywhere! Sadly, many false leaders have taken your hard-earned money with pseudo preaching and prophecies over your life. “Your leaders are like wolves who tear apart their victims. They actually destroy people’s lives for money” (Ezekiel 22:27)! God desires leaders who will not comprise or twist His written Word. 
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