The Vertical Relationship Show: Relationship Goals, Healing Trauma, Biblical Counseling, Dating Advice & Christian Marriage

EPS 204- 3 Ways to have BOUNDARIES as a CHRISTIAN without being a Doormat

As a Christian, it's important to remember that being kind, compassionate, and showing love; does not mean allowing others to walk all over you at their convenience! For that reason, your identity as a follower of Christ should not be based on always saying, "yes" to others. You're not a doormat! First and foremost, it is crucial to pray for discernment and follow God's direction in all situations. By seeking guidance from the Lord, you can make wise decisions about when to say, "no" and when to stand up for yourself or walk away. Scriptures should not be taken out of context; turning the other cheek does not mean allowing others to mistreat you. (See Matthew 5:38-40). Setting healthy boundaries is essential in maintaining your well-being and standing firm in your faith. 
 
Check out my new audiobook: FEAR NOT: A No-Nonsense Guide to Healing Trauma "God's Way" Warfare-Healing-Deliverance for Wounded Souls. (This book is included in Melia's "Heal my Soul Wounds" Trauma Program)👇
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Blessings xo-
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EPS 203- Part 3: Understanding the “Feeler Anointing” of God over Satan

The "feeler anointing" is a rare gift from the Lord but can be used for Satan's kingdom. Yes, if you're a feeler, you're going to get labeled as a hypochondriac, overly emotional, oversensitive, crazy, and too sensitive! So, embrace it and know who you are in Christ. Many struggle with this highly sensitive gift and feel extremely overwhelmed. Feelers often feel drained by intense emotions and high sensory input; more than the average Joe. Therefore, their time and energy are best spent alone for a time to recharge. Feelers require authentic relationships because they love deeply and more intensely. Understand this God given gift further with Christian Counselor, Author, and Prophetic Mentor, Melia, as she navigates the path of the feeler anointing! 
More in my audiobook: FEAR NOT: A No-Nonsense Guide to Healing Trauma "God's Way" Warfare-Healing-Deliverance for Wounded Souls. (This book is included in Melia's "Heal my Soul Wounds" Trauma Program)👇
https://meliadiana.com/fear-not-no-nonsense-guide-to-healing-trauma-gods-way-warfare-healing-deliverance-for-wounded-souls
 
Blessings xo-
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EPS 202- Part 2: HEALING as an HSP and Empath vs. Prophetic Gift

Healing can look like it's from our Lord and Savior, but twisted with Satan's antics. Many Christians think they are following God and His ways, but actually following the devil's crooked pathways. Healing can come in many different versions and forms... we must trend with caution and have wise discernment of each path to know the main difference between an empath, HSP, verses a prophetic gift.
More in my audiobook: FEAR NOT: A No-Nonsense Guide to Healing Trauma "God's Way" Warfare-Healing-Deliverance for Wounded Souls 👇
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Blessings xo-
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EPS 201- Part 1: Debunking Paths of an Empath + HSP + Prophet

First off, we must first recognize, we are even building up the Kingdom of God or the kingdom of Satan. You’re running with the devil or running with God. Spirit of deception (antichrist) or spirit of truth (the Holy Spirit). In a world filled with spiritual beliefs and practices, it can be challenging to discern between what is true and what is deceptive. As Melia navigates the main difference of an empath, HSP, and prophet - she debunks all paths have the unique ability to experience feelings and emotions as if they were their own. It's crucial to seek truth and discernment along our healing journey with the Lord. 
Chapters:
00:10:23 - Intro to Vertical Relationship Show00:05:14 - Understanding Prophets, Empaths, HSPs00:10:40 - Spreading the Love of Jesus
 
More in my audiobook: FEAR NOT: A No-Nonsense Guide to Healing Trauma "God's Way" Warfare-Healing-Deliverance for Wounded Souls 👇
https://meliadiana.com/fear-not-no-nonsense-guide-to-healing-trauma-gods-way-warfare-healing-deliverance-for-wounded-souls
 
Blessings xo-
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EPS 200- Should you "CAST OUT" Spirit of Leviathan, Ahab, and Jezebel?

Prophetic Warning: Territorial spirits are not to be tempered with alone! This will take a cooperate team and can cause unnecessary warfare without a team of chosen leaders. I’m observing too many people think they should cast out a second heaven demon. Just because you watched a glorified YouTube video, does not mean you should follow suit. This is dangerous route, my friends!
 
This can cause serious backlash if you are ill-equipped to fight these territorial spirits. This is not what disciples of Jesus should be displaying. We have authority in first heaven, here on earth. Fighting territorial spirits; like Leviathan, Ahab, and Jezebel are for specific mandates, a special assignment from the Lord. If God did not grant you His authority nor permission-DON'T-for your safety and protection! 
 
More in my audiobook: FEAR NOT: A No-Nonsense Guide to Healing Trauma "God's Way" Warfare-Healing-Deliverance for Wounded Souls 👇
https://meliadiana.com/fear-not-no-nonsense-guide-to-healing-trauma-gods-way-warfare-healing-deliverance-for-wounded-souls
 
Blessings xo-
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EPS 199- UNFORGIVENESS is Spiritual Poison to the Soul

Unforgiveness is an ugly stronghold! It can cause so much inner turmoil to one's soul without true healing with our Lord. Many people, including Christians, say they "forgive" but deep down inside, have unhealthy emotions toward their offender! Without forgiveness; spiritual poison starts to slowly leaks into the soul, turning into many other forms of strongholds: such as bitterness, rejection, and anger. Don't stay stuck in this spiritual poison... It's not the matter of your flesh, options, or feelings, but rather a direct command from the God-FORGIVE, my friends!
More in my audiobook: FEAR NOT: A No-Nonsense Guide to Healing Trauma "God's Way" Warfare-Healing-Deliverance for Wounded Souls 👇
https://meliadiana.com/fear-not-no-nonsense-guide-to-healing-trauma-gods-way-warfare-healing-deliverance-for-wounded-souls
 
Blessings xo-
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EPS 198- FEAR NOT: No-Nonsense Guide to Healing Trauma

Ready to discover the inner depths of trauma? Uncloak from fearful strongholds? Go deeper into healing and deliverance without a showy stage production?
Introducing Melia's brand-new audiobook- FEAR NOT; No-Nonsense Guide to Healing Trauma "God's Way" Warfare-Healing-Deliverance for Wounded Souls!
 
FEAR NOT: A No-Nonsense Guide to Healing Trauma "God's Way" Warfare-Healing-Deliverance for Wounded Souls 👇
https://meliadiana.com/fear-not-no-nonsense-guide-to-healing-trauma-gods-way-warfare-healing-deliverance-for-wounded-souls
 
Blessings xo-
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EPS 197- PROPHETIC WORD: Burden of 70x7 Guilt-Shame-Rebellion & 7-Fold Spirit

In today's tumultuous world, it's easy to lose sight of God's love for us. The palpable anger of the Lord reveals 70x7 of guilt, shame, and rebellion of mankind. God must take action for a generation that continually grieves Him! Discontent stems from a loving Father who desires nothing but the best for His children. Melia shares a personal testament of experiencing the heavy burden of God's grief and anger, as she pleads for the lost and brokenhearted. A powerful prophetic message about the Lord's burdened heart and judgment on rebellion, guilt, and shame. The solution? A heartfelt repentance and a steadfast return to God’s ways to avoid spiritual blindness.
Chapters:
00:00 Judgment and prophecy00:44 Spiritual cataracts explained01:19 Spiritual blindness explored01:52 Sevenfold spirit insights02:39 Discussing angels and demons03:07 Personal burdens and spirits03:38 Feeling misaligned with God04:01 Seeking divine guidance04:31 Forgiveness through scripture04:58 Disobedience and divine mercy06:14 Significance of the blind ghost07:17 Call for obedience and repentance
Blessings xo-
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EPS 196- Power of the HOLY SPIRIT; Discernment for Spirit of Truth or Deception

Facing challenges in discernment? Without the Holy Spirit guiding us to God's truth, no discernment is dispersed! Too many Christians are not testing the spirit (See 1 John 4:1) because they don't spend time with Jesus or study their Bible to know the difference between a spirit of truth (Holy Spirit) verses a spirit of deception (Satan).
Nobody, including myself, will not be able to have wise discernment, without a vertical relationship with Jesus. Exploring the Trinity's power, Melia illustrates how the Holy Spirit acts as our advocate and teacher, revealing the depths within Scripture to determine the difference between falsehood and God's truth!
Chapters:
00:10 Melia's mission introduction01:00 Discerning God's voice01:38 Holy Spirit's guidance02:37 Power of the Word03:09 Steps to salvation04:04 Holy Spirit advocate05:24 Struggles with discernment06:23 Messages of love07:31 Healing and vulnerability08:33 Trauma recovery intro09:40 Prayers10:22 Closing blessings
Blessings xo-
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EPS 195- PROPHETIC WARNING: Judgement Falls on Christians BLINDED by False Prophets!

Christians who are following and in agreement with false prophets, fall under God's judgment! False prophets and those who seek their guidance will all be punished for their sins. (Ezekiel 14:4-10). False prophets and leaders are only after your money, selfish ambitions, high status, vain imaginations, and loads of followers ... Unfortunately, false prophets do not really care about your well-being. True prophets care about your soul prospering for God's Kingdom; only giving the body of Christ "God's truth" and not compromising with any ounce of falsehood!
In an age where ancient practices of sorcery and witchcraft are often repackaged, twisted, and normalized as Christianity, Melia warns of the subtle dangers these practices pose to Christians without discernment!
Chapters:
00:00 Warning: False Prophets' Dangers00:51 Idolatry and False Guidance01:20 Consequences of Idolatry02:00 Deceptive False Prophets02:38 Dangers of Sorcery03:11 Discern Holy from Unholy04:25 Urging Repentance05:29 Healing Soul Wounds06:26 Reject Ungodly Influences07:57 Exposing False Women Prophets09:39 Prioritize God Over Social Media11:23 Discernment and True Repentance
Blessings xo-
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EPS 194- Christians can Function in Dysfunction and Unhealed Trauma

Did you know that many people, including Christians, can function quite well in their dysfunction? Many times, people operating in unhealed trauma have no idea anything is wrong because it's their normal. But, it's not someone else's. Perhaps, yelling and screaming was an ordinary occurrence in your family? Or promoting promiscuous or hateful behavior without repercussions was perfectly acceptable? Either way, we don't expect Christians to behave improperly, but many still operate from a wounded soul. Find out if you, or someone you love, is functioning in their dysfunction!
Blessings xo-
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EPS 193- Die to Self in an "Equally Yoked" Christian Marriage

Just because you're a Christian and in an equally yoked marriage, does not mean your life will be hunky dory. Although, God tells us to not team up with unbelievers, truth is, you're a target for Satan, now! "Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers" (2 Corinthians 6:14). My husband and I chat about real struggles and how to "die to self" in our godly union.
Blessings xo-
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EPS 192- Healing in NOT Linear or What you Think!

Healing in not linear or what you think! Many people think they know what they need healing from, but don’t. For example, your focus is about your husband or wife, yet God might be wanting to heal a deeper problem within you, that's been buried for years. You are dating and can't seem to attract the right partner, but a traumatic event you experienced is holding you back. I have the pleasure to work with many clients and it comes to no surprise when the Lord revealed something else, they need healing from. I share a powerful story in today's episode ... God reveled a spirit of fear over my client and her horse! 
Blessings xo-
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EPS 191- PROPHETIC WORD: Pure Prophets are Metal Testers for the LORD!

Many will never understand what a pure prophet, not compromised with evil, goes through on a daily basis! The high cost to follow God wholeheartedly coincides with severe demonic attacks, constant tears, Astro projection, witchcraft, and endless spiritual warfare battles. God says, "Many are called but only few are chosen" (Matthew 22:14). While these attacks are extremely painful, they are masked with deeper burdens from the Lord, a unique testing of metals. A pure prophetic vessel must be able to manage their gift with balance, grace, love, strength, integrity, and courage. So, I ask... are you this kind of metal tester for the Lord?
Blessings xo-
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EPS 190- Are you RELATIONSHIPS Operating under WITCHCRAFT?

Did you know our loved ones, family, and friends can be operating under witchcraft? Many times, the deceptive nature of evil, that's rooted in witchcraft, has a greater potential for curses to be placed on individuals without them even knowing it! Witchcraft is used by the enemy to attack our relationships by using manipulation, intimidation, and control. More than ever, we need to protect ourselves, stay close to Jesus, and use wise discernment living in this dark world.  
Blessings xo-
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EPS 189- HEAL MY SOUL WOUNDS; Self-Paced TRAUMA Purification Program

It's finally here... Melia's self-paced trauma program just for you! “Heal my Soul Wounds” is not your typical trauma recovery program. It's a powerful 7-step trauma purification process: Inner Healing & Deliverance "God's Way" for wounded souls.
This metamorphic program is based on God’s Word, biblical principles, powerful prayer, godly counsel, high investments, brutal hardships, and intense spiritual warfare experiences … carefully designed and structured by prophetic utterance of the Fathers heart! The Holy Spirit is heavenly involved in the healing process, a true partnership with Jesus Christ, will help to navigate your way to set yourself FREE of trauma in your life. 
Blessings xo-
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EPS 188- Spirit of Infirmity & Getting to the ROOT of Pain

Many times, a spirt of infirmity, is at the root of your pain. Truth is, many disregard the spiritual realm as a myth buster and only believe what their naked eye can see. Therefore, only the physical dimension is witnessed to many wounded souls. Can God heal you from chronic pain and suffering? God is God. You must come to realize the battles are not fought in carnal ways! We use God’s mighty weapons, not worldly weapons, to knock down the strongholds of human reasoning. (See 2 Corinthians 10:4). 
Blessings xo-
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EPS 187- PROPHETIC WARNING: Judgment is Coming; Sounding the Alarm for Broken Covenants & Idols!

Judgment is coming! The Lord is crying out for His sons and daughters to get right with Him... God is sounding the alarm for broken covenants; an agreement with God, a promise to forgive our sins and restore fellowship with those who turn their heart towards Him. Jesus is the mediator of the new covenant. Yet, many Christians are not abiding and convening themselves with other gods-idols! Lacking revenant fear of God still penetrates in the hearts of many men and women. EKK! The Lord is tired of the constant disobedience and idolatry taken root in many souls. You’ve been gentle warned, my friends! This is not to scare you, but give you the truth, which many are not willing to do.
Blessings xo-
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EPS 186- Unhealed Trauma will cause SOUL WOUNDS in your Relationships

No matter if your single or married... You have a responsibility to heal your soul wounds if you desire to have thriving relationships upon your life. Unhealed trauma is an open door for the devil to cause havoc in your relationships and health. Let's not forget that unhealed trauma will also stunt your healing progression causing discord in every area of your life. The Lord can cleanse your wounded soul. Remember: God is Jehovah Rapha; the Lord that heals! 
Blessings xo-
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EPS 185- PROPHETIC WORD: Rahab Spirit brings STRIFE in Relationships & Inhibits Crossing Over

When you think of Rahab, you most likely think of the prostitute who helped hide the Israelite spies from the enemy. (See Joshua 2). But that is not the Rahab I’m talking about … The Lord revealed a water spirit named Rahab; hovering over cities, countries, states, and nations, affecting people worldwide!
Rahab is a prideful, quarrelsome, arrogant sea monster looking to impede your relationships and time of crossing over to your God given purpose. Truth is, many people think this is the Leviathan spirit, while Rahab has been getting a "free hall pass" to mess with your life. Listen to this headful prophetic word so you can be prepared! 
Blessings xo-
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